Thursday 2 April 2009

Blog 3 Infidelity


Infidelity has empowered women because women can gain much more by committing this crime which men are not penalised as much as women for. If a man commits adultery he is called a stud or typical male. However if a women does the same she is a slut or a bad person. Notice the difference. Therefore all you women out there, take control of your life and enjoy passion without feeling guilty because men will if they were given half the chance.
People are curious and who wouldn't want some new attention. When this situation arises who wouldn't dream about going for it. Some would argue that we are not meant to be with one person for the rest of our lives, after all we are not in one job for life are we ? There is no greater pleasure than lust and some people love the adrenaline rush of am I going to get away with it. This adds to the whole experience of infidelity.
ScienceDaily (Sep. 13, 2008) — The probability of someone cheating during the course of a relationship varies between 40 and 76 percent. "It's very high," says Geneviève Beaulieu-Pelletier, PhD student at the Université de Montréal's Department of Psychology.According to psychologists, people with avoidant attachment styles are individuals uncomfortable with intimacy and are therefore more likely to multiply sexual encounters and cheat. But this has never been proved scientifically, which is what Beaulieu-Pelletier attempted to do in a series of four studies.

I think having the ability to indulge in an affair so easily by clicking on a few buttons is completely immoral. For the simple reason that people take advantage and go behind their partners backs. However their are exceptional circumstances for example if a partner does not enjoy sex and allows the other partner to be physically with another person. However even then it is debatable as to why two people are in a relationship where one partners needs are so different from the others. If people are not having sex then they are just friends and I don't think they should remain in a relationship because it is clearly over. In the modern age that we are in I think relationships can sometimes run out of a sell by date for some people. We live in a disposable society and people have lost a lot of morals in the process of modern living. However some women can not tolerate being physical with a partner after child birth, but these symptoms are few and far between. Some people are also in a relationship which does not satisfy them for whatever reason and they need an affair. The reason why they indulge in an affair could be to protect their children from getting hurt. There are some people who have an affair rather than splitting up due to the fact that they do not want to lose out financially by getting a divorce, hence they commit adultery.

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